Humor can soften the stresses of life, if we will let it.
A frantic man got home from work to find his wife doubled over in pain. He grabbed the phone and called the hospital.
“You’ve gotta send help now!” he yelled into the phone. “My wife’s going into labor!”
“Oh, I see,” the nurse said. “OK, calm down. Is this your wife’s first child?’
“No,” the distraught man screamed. “This is her husband!” LOL!
Author Karen O’Connor wrote many practical books with fun titles, including Gettin’ Old Aint for Wimps, Walkin’ with God Ain’t for Wimps and three other “wimp” books, plus books on aging beautifully and dealing with senior moments.
She asked, “Have you considered finding God in humor? … I believe God wants us to be full of joy and laughter, and to give up fretting and worrying.”
I thought Karen’s article, “Five Ways to Nurture Your Sense of Humor,” was helpful, and I want to encourage LOL with God readers to check their lives to see if these tips are part of their everyday experiences. Karen says:
1. Share a funny or embarrassing moment with someone you know, and enjoy it together.
My friend Melissa called to say she sprayed her hair with furniture polish. “It fell flat but had a nice shine!”
2. Laugh at yourself even when you feel like crying. I thought I’d misplaced my cell phone only to discover I was using it right then to speak with my neighbor. Oh my!
3. Cheer up sick friends with a book of humorous stories or jokes. Help them discover that, as Will Rogers said, “Laughter is the best medicine.”
Hmm… I wonder whether Rogers got that concept from the Bible? Proverbs 17:22
4. Find humor even in serious situations. A woman whose hair was growing in after chemo treatments said her husband Dan helped her laugh every day. “We had a short-haired dog a the time, so when my hair started coming in, he clapped me on the back and said, ‘Great. Now I have a short-haired wife, too!’ I liked my new look so well, I never let my hair grow long again.”
5. Make a list of scripture verses that encourage laughter and tack them up on your mirror or bulletin board to review each day. Here are a few:
“Our mouths were filled with laughter, our tongues with songs of joy” (Psalm 126:2).
“A happy heart makes the face cheerful … ” (Proverbs 15:13).
“Blessed are you who weep now, for you will laugh” (Luke 6:21).
Finding God in humor is easy, Karen says, once you look for him there.
She’s so right. Our circumstances can change in a moment, but we will always have the option of choosing our attitudes and looking for God and the lessons He might want to teach us in those circumstances.
I recently heard about a woman whose husband died. In time, she discovered that her life in widowhood ~ which would never be the same ~ had some unexpected blessings. God often surprised her with wonderful moments of joy in her new, single-again adventure with Him. It wasn’t easy, but with great courage, and trusting in the Lord’s presence and promises, she chose to look for positives and “grow” her joy.
I like the word that Karen used … nurture. We must nurture our sense of humor. We must actively help it grow. Karen gave us five ways, and I want to add one more. I think that one of the most effective ways to nurture our humor is to relax in the great purposes of the sovereign God who loves us.
I was at a playground recently and I watched children laugh and play with abandon, knowing that their parents were watching over them. They felt safe, so they could give in to joy! It reminded me of one of my favorite songs: “This is my Father’s World.” One of the verses says: “This is my Father’s world. O let me ne’er forget That though the wrong seems oft so strong, God is the ruler yet”
Yes, God is in charge. Even in the tough times, God rules! His purposes are sure. He has a plan for our lives. Ultimately, we will rejoice in praise and worship throughout eternity ~ but we get glimpses of that incredible joy this side of heaven, too.
In her post, Karen quotes Isaiah 55:12: “You will go out in joy and be led forth in peace; the mountains will burst into song before you, and all the trees of the field will clap their hands.” What a great picture!
Want a big smile? Imagine God leading you forward in joy and peace ~ in victory in the midst of your circumstances.
And then picture the mountains bellowing out a hearty, happy song of praise with all the trees joyously swaying and “clapping” along.
Are you smiling yet? Talk about finding God in humor!