There are so many LOL opportunities at a doctor’s waiting room.
“Adam, an elderly man was seated in the doctor’s waiting room. When he was called in to see the doctor, Adam slowly got up, and, grasping his cane and hunching over, slowly made his way into the examining room.
“After only a few minutes, Adam emerged from the room, walking completely upright. Paul, another patient who had watched him hobble into the room all hunched over, stared in amazement.
“‘That must be a miracle doctor in there.’ he exclaimed. ‘What treatment did he give you? What’s his secret?’
Adam stared at Paul and said, ‘Well, the doctor looked me up and down, analysed the situation, and gave me a cane that was four inches longer than the one I had been using.’*
LOL! Things are not always what they seem, are they?
I’ve been in a lot of doctor’s offices lately, and I’ve started wondering if I’m a patient patient.
Not long ago, I watched a crabby old man complain and complain and COMPLAIN! He griped about the time he had to wait. He sniped at the receptionist. In general, he was a miserable guy and determined to make others in the waiting room uncomfortable too.
He wasn’t a patient patient.
And as I sat there thinking about how I felt watching him, I started thinking about how I act as a “patient” of the Great Physician. As God is working to heal my soul and sanctify my life–to make me more like Jesus–I get so impatient sometimes.
But God is teaching me three things:
1. I need to “wait” on the Lord with anticipation and hope.
Waiting as the Bible describes it is a positive experience–or it’s supposed to be. Here are just a few of the scriptures that teach us this truth:
- “Make me to know your ways, O Lord; teach me your paths. Lead me in your truth and teach me, for you are the God of my salvation; for you I wait all the day long” (Psalm 25:4-5)
- “Wait for the Lord; be strong, and let your heart take courage; wait for the Lord!” (Psalm 27:14).
- “The Lord is good to those who wait for him, to the soul who seeks him” (Lamentations 3:25).
- “But as for me, I will look to the Lord; I will wait for the God of my salvation; my God will hear me” (Micah 7:7).
- “Our soul waits for the Lord; he is our help and our shield. For our heart is glad in him, because we trust in his holy name. Let your steadfast love, O Lord, be upon us, even as we hope in you” (Psalm 33:20-22).
That doesn’t mean there’s no suffering in the wait (Psalm 40:1-3; Colossians 1:11), but rather that God will use hard circumstances to build strength of character in us when the going gets tough . . .IF we are turning to Him to get through them.
A.W. Tozer said, “Problems patiently endured will work for our spiritual perfecting.”
The truth is, while we wait we can still choose to set aside bitter complaining and rejoice in the Lord.
“… we rejoice in our sufferings, knowing that suffering produces endurance, and endurance produces character, and character produces hope” (Romans 5:3-4).
We don’t have to act like that grumpy old guy in the waiting room!
2. I need to remember the Great Physician knows what is best for my life.
The One who sees the beginning and ending of time knows what is best, and I believe He “who began a good work” in His own will “bring it to completion” when Jesus returns (Philippians 1:6).
3. I need to practice patient trust.
I need ditch my pride and stop trying to make all the elements of my life work the way I want them to. Instead, I need to exercise faith that God will accomplish His purposes in me (Hebrews 11:1). I need to practice patience daily.
God’s thoughts are above my thoughts (Isaiah 55:8), so I need to trust His wisdom and rest in His sovereign care.
Trusting God is releasing our lives to His control. It’s understanding His work may take some time, and it may not follow our agenda.
Years ago, a friend of mine (also named Dawn) shared this poem with me and it stuck with me, deep in my heart:
“Just as my child brings his broken toys with tears for me to mend,
I took my broken dreams to God because He was my friend.
But then instead of leaving Him in peace to work alone,
I hung around and tried to help with ways that were my own.
At last I snatched them back and cried, ‘How could you be so slow?’
‘What could I do, my child? ‘ He said. ‘You never did let go’.” **
Oh, how we need to practice the patience of faith!
Are you a patient patient? What can you do to better trust the One who loves you and desires to heal and change your life for His glory?
* Humor – Will and Guy’s Selection of Clean Doctor’s Jokes.
** Poem by Junior Frontilus