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Broken Joy? How to Get It Fixed

6 Oct

Pinterest has inspired many great crafts. 

But in at least a few cases, it has also inspired broken dishes!

I recently read about “12 Creative Crafts that Take Broken China from Trash to Treasure!”

Some of the new creations suggested were a watering can, a birdhouse, a birdbath and an end table. (I’ve pictured some in this article.)

A friend of mine actually broke some perfectly fine old—I would call them beautiful antique—dishes so she could make some “broken dishes” crafts with the pieces!

It’s not a Pinterest thing, but when I saw the picture of  the broken joy pottery (above), it inspired me to piece together a piece about “broken joy.”

Joy is such a beautiful thing. It’s extremely sad when it gets broken.

Pastor Jim Johnston wrote, “One key sign of spiritual danger is losing your joy. … Joy is one of the vital gauges on the dashboard of the Christian life.”

Here are 10 thoughts about fixing or rebuilding broken joy.

1. Joy wanes when we neglect time with God and His Word.

When I came to the Lord in faith, receiving what He did for me on the cross as the sacrifice for my sin, He made me a new creation and He fills my hearts with joy. He delights in His beloved children.

But many things can rob me of His joy—distractions and “joy-killers.”

That’s why David, after committing horrendous sins, prayed to the Lord, “Restore to me the joy of Your salvation…” (Psalm 51:12).

After I confess my sin, I need the Word of God to water my soul and continually restore me to spiritual health. 

Joy is a byproduct of a relationship with the Lord through the Spirit of God. As a praise song says, “Joy is the flag flown high from the castle of my heart when the King is in residence there.”

In the Lord’s presence is “fullness of joy,” and if we want joy full to overflowing, we must remember what Jesus has spoken to us in the Word of God.

2. Joy abounds when we are safe and satisfied in the Lord.

Being “safe” in my salvation, with my name written in heaven, helps me rejoice. Abundant joy comes when my heart is fully satisfied in Christ and not tempted by lesser things.

Whenever I am tempted to trust in something or someone other than God for my ultimate satisfaction, I quickly find these chosen idols can’t help me.

The Lord is the only One who can make known to His children the “path of life that leads to satisfaction. We are wise to take refuge in Him. When we rejoice in the Lord and share our heart and requests with Him, He floods our hearts with protective peace.  Kingdom Life is filled with God’s goodness, peace and joy in the Spirit. But to experience this kind of joy, we must shift our focus to Jesus and His work in and through us.

3. Scripture connects joy to spiritual obedience and ministry.

Believers are twice commanded to “rejoice” in one verse: Philippians 4:4. It’s a powerful command! I will abide in God’s love and experience His joy when I keep His commandments. It’s not a feeling. It’s a response of love.

The Psalmist says we will “come home with shouts of joy” when we minister to and invest in people. This is especially true when we bear the “seed” of the Word of God. We are to help others walk in the truth to experience the Lord’s love and joy. Be a disciple-maker.

4. To be more joyful, choose holiness.

Simply put, when I am “pure in heart,” I will see God; and dwelling in His holy presence, there is “fullness of joy.”

Pastor John Starke explained why holy people are happy people: “Not surprisingly, God’s designs for our sanctification are most satisfying. In contrast, a life in sin is tiring, placing joy just outside our reach.”

Our reason for choosing holiness is a key factor, however. “We aren’t pursuing holiness in order to be happy with ourselves. No, our holiness focuses our vision on Christ….” We want to put aside anything that obscures our view of and satisfaction in Him.

5. Life-building within God’s will brings us greater joy.

The Apostle Paul says joy comes when we “finish our course,” the ministry given to us by the Lord (Acts 20:24). God wants us to grow, and we need a plan for the process to cooperate with Him.

As I am intentional to build within God’s will, I can become more like Jesus, “increasing” in every area of life: spiritually, socially, mentally and physically.

6. For more joy, squelch conflicts with humility and forgiveness.

Paul encouraged Christ-followers to interact with unity and pursue peace. This takes humility and love for others that grows from the love of God within us. We are to bear with one another, but also forgive each other’s offenses.

Sometimes we come across tough situations. When we have done all we can, it may be necessary to follow the biblical process for confrontation with the goal of reconciliation.

7. Joy is enhanced by gratitude and diminished by comparisons.

A God-ward focus will tend to make us more grateful; but I’ve noticed in my own life how much “comparisons” with others diminish my ability to be grateful. It’s foolish to measure others by my own measuring stick in order to commend myself. A grateful-to-God heart has no time for silly comparisons.

When we cannot find anything else to be thankful for, we can always thank God for our salvation! But we need to cultivate thankfulness, because it is God’s will for us. Make a list of God’s blessings. Watch your joy increase.

8. Practice contentment to experience real-time joy.

Whenever I have a lot of “what ifs” in my life, I struggle with joy. Don’t you? It’s the silly “grass is greener” syndrome; we want what others have and fail to see our own blessings.

The Lord wants us to practice contentment. He knows our many expectations for things and entitlements. “Hope deferred,” not getting what we hope for, can make our heart “sick.” Contentment has to be learned, and the greatest source of contentment is to remember “The Lord is my portion.” He is all I need!

Some of my favorite ways to let go of my attachment to “stuff” and practice contentment are: to give away what I think I need; to stop self-focusing, and to think of ways to invest in others’ lives.

9. Walking in wisdom can set you up for joy no matter what you face.

Walking in wisdom, making the best use of time and seeking the Lord’s will, is a set-up for more joy! When I listen to God’s counsel and hear His voice, I can walk confidently in Him.

Circumstances change and can even be painful, but joy comes in embracing godly wisdom in the midst of struggles (Psalm 30:5; Romans 8:28).

10. Guard against the joy-robber himself: Satan. 

Just as the joy of the Lord is our strength (Nehemiah 8:10b), broken joy from our enemy saps our strength!

I’m learning to be alert to the schemes of the devil as I watch and pray. Also, focusing on the Lord helps me not be shaken when tough times come. I don’t want to neglect the body of Christ either, because it’s a source of encouragement and instruction in joyful living.

If your joy is broken, don’t lose heart. Follow these suggestions and search the Word of God, speak to Him daily and seek to know His heart. In due season, you will reap a heap of joy!

Graphic adapted, courtesy of MissCaraReads, Pixabay

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Fragrance or Stink: What Do You Smell Like?

1 Oct

A woman, trying to control her dry hair, treated her scalp with olive oil before washing it. But then, worried the oil might oliveoil_margenauer_pixabaylinger, she washed her hair several times.

That night, as she went to bed, she leaned over to her husband and asked, “Do I smell like olive oil?”

“No,” he said, sniffing her.

“Do I smell like Popeye?” *

I once read that if you lick your wrist and wait 10 seconds, and then smell your wrist… that’s what your breath smells like!

Is that true? Oh wait … Yikes!

There are sweet smells and offensive smells, right?

  • The smell of a newborn baby (minus a soiled diaper).
  • The smell of old books.
  • The smell of exotic perfume.
  • The smell of a bakery.
  • The smell of a wet dog.
  • The smell of honeysuckle vines.
  • The smell of an angry skunk.

But the smell I’m considering today is the aroma that lingers from my attitudes. 

Even if you are not aware of it, you are leaving behind a fragrance wherever you go.

Encouraging, godly attitudes will bless others, but when our attitudes “stink,” it will affect everyone around us in negative ways.

Although sin grievously affects us personally, we don’t sin unto ourselves—others are affected. Our “stink” can rub off on others! One example is the stinky attitude that comes from an unforgiving, bitter attitude that “defiles many” (Hebrews 12:15).

The story is told of an old homeless man, taken in by a God-fearing couple who wanted to help him. They took him home where he showered and cleaned up. But then he put on his old, dirty, stinky clothes! He didn’t realize the loving couple had laid out fresh, clean clothes for him.

This is what we Christians do sometimes. We are “washed” by the Lord when He rescues us and makes us His own (1 Corinthians 6:11; Ephesians 5:26) and God wraps us in a robe of righteousness (Isaiah 61:10); but then we keep righteousrobe_stinkygarments_lolwithgodputting old “stinky” garments over that robe!

Our hearts are changed, but we still resort to stinky thinking patterns that lead to stinky actions.

When tempted to put on those stinky attitudes, we need to lay them down and pick up the attitudes the Holy Spirit has “laid out” for us.

What are these attitudes?

Sweet-smelling attitudes arise from the fruit of the Spirit: love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, and goodness (Galatians 5:22-23). They include behavior that shows we have become “partakers of the divine nature” (2 Peter 1:4-7).

And our thoughts help us focus on these attitudes. We need thoughts that are true, noble, right, pure, lovely, admirable, praiseworthy (Philippians 4:8). We need to think these kinds of things and practice sweet-smelling habits that flow from those thoughts.

We all sin. Every day. If we say we don’t, we’re deceiving ourselves (1 John 1:8). But that doesn’t mean we cozy down with our sins. We should hate our sin as God does, and confess it to Him in repentance (1 John 1:9) so we can move forward in His grace to thoughts, words and behaviors that please Him (Ephesians 5:8-10; 2 Corinthians 5:9; Romans 12:1-2).

We need a “daily washing” to make sure the aroma of Christ is what lingers, wherever we go and in every situation;

“For we are the sweet fragrance of Christ [which ascends] to God, [discernible both] among those who are being saved and among those who are perishing” (2 Corinthians 2:15, Amp).

King David, after committing terrible sin, cried out to God, “Wash me thoroughly from my iniquity [wickedness], and cleanse me from my sin!” (Psalm 51:2). In essence, David was saying, “Scrub me clean. Soak out my sinful attitudes and actions, and let me be pure again.”

Determine that your aroma will be the fragrance of Christ, not the stink of sin!

How can you know what “aroma” emanates from YOUR life? By others’ reactions and responses? Through the conviction of the Holy Spirit? From the Word of God?

from * Adapted from The Cybersalt Digest, Issue #4177, 9-1-16

~ Dawn

That Old Schemer!

29 Jul

There all kinds of schemes in life: Pyramid schemes, financial marketing schemes, romantic schemes, parenting schemes, and so on.  A scheme that made me smile recently was this one: “I’m working hard not, so my future daughter does not have to sell protein powder on Instagram.”BatManParatrooper_1942_Listverse

I am probably a little strange, but I enjoy reading about military schemes and battle plans throughout history. One of the craziest schemes was the “Bat-men” paratroopers who joined the California State Guard in 1942!

Their plan was to use modified jumpsuits with “diving wings” to evade enemy fire by swooping through the air like bats! Oh yeah, that would work.

Did you know we all have an enemy who never gives up trying to attack us with diverse schemes? Have you encountered him lately?

The apostle Paul, addressing believers’ need for forgiveness, added these telling words: “to keep Satan from taking advantage of us; for we are not ignorant of his schemes” (2 Corinthians 2:11, Amp).  [Other scripture versions say we must not be ignorant or oblivious to Satan’s evil “designs,” “devices” or “sly ways.”]

The word “Satan” means “an adversary” and that he is (1 Peter 5:8)—an adversary seeking for someone to “devour.” He showed his adversarial nature when he first rose up against the Lord in prideful rebellion in heaven, and now he prowls earth, looking for people to destroy.

He first laid in wait for the first humans (Genesis 3:1-5), and in this sinful, disordered world after The Fall we’ve been tempted by this schemer every day. He tried to destroy the Patriarch Job (Job 1:6-12) . Throughout the Old Testament he rose up against Israel, and, as an example, 2 Chronicles 21:1-2 says the evil one provoked David to sin. The king foolishly fueled his pride by taking a census (2 Samuel 24:1-10).

In the New Testament, the adversary also goes by other names, such as “the evil one” (Matthew 13:19) and “the spirit who is now at work in those who are disobedient” (Ephesians 2:2). He is a liar (John 8:44) and the chief of the devils (Luke 11:15)—full of hate, revenge, envy and a host of other sinful attitudes.  In 2 Corinthians 4:4 we learn Satan blinds unbelievers so they can’t see the glorious light of the gospel.

Satan also delights in sidetracking and sidelining believers through his sinful strategies. Luke 22:31 says Satan desired and demanded to “have” Simon and “sift” him—to separate Him from the Lord. And it was Satan who first put thoughts of betrayal into the heart of Judas (John 13:2).

Although Satan will never have power to overcome the Lord within us (1 John 4:4), he does have great (but limited) power and he cleverly uses it for evil purposes. And it is this cleverness that trips us up. The devil waits for opportunities to tempt us to sin; he uses tricks and deception to catch us off guard.

We are perhaps as much or more in danger from Satan’s subtle seductions as his outright power plays.

Satan uses a number of schemes to defeat believers. Let’s expose a few of them:

Scheme #1. He tempts us to doubt God when we suffer.

We’re all going to suffer at some point. Jesus told us we would (John 15:20). So did the disciples (Acts 14:22; 1 Peter 4:12; 2 Timothy 3:12). We’re going to face trials and tough circumstances; no one is immune from the effects of The Fall.

Satan wants us to doubt God’s love and goodness. This is especially tough when our prayers seem unanswered and we do not feel God’s love, or when our spiritual life seems dry.

Our strategy to combat this is to consider Christ and His sufferings—how he continued to trust His Father in heaven in spite of His circumstances (Hebrews 12:3)—so we will “not grow weary and lose heart.”  We also need to understand how Satan desires to use circumstances to distract us, disappoint us and draw us away from the Lord. Our Father, on the other hand, uses circumstances to make us more like Jesus. He is with us in the midst of our struggles, working out His purposes for this world and His purposes for us.

Scheme #2. He troubles our thought life.

One of the ways Satan tries to get advantage over us is through our thoughts, and he uses impure thoughts, unbelieving thoughts and even rebellious thoughts. Sometimes it may feel like those thoughts are as frustrating and tormenting as a physical attack. The Bible talks about Satan’s “fiery darts”—those weapons he uses to attack us. Thoughts of doubt about God are attacks from within.

Satan also wants to confuse us and make us afraid. I remember a morning I woke up with absolute panic. My thoughts seemed totally out of control. A rush of wicked and impure thoughts made me cower in shame … until I realized it was an attack. Those thoughts were not part of me, although they likely used past thoughts for ammunition. I had to wrestle with Satan using the truth of Scripture.

Our strategy to combat this nasty attack is to recognize God can overcome all our evil, doubtful, wayward thoughts with the power of His Word. We must take action to prevent the devil from using abominable thoughts to make us faithless or fearing. We must conform out thoughts to the Word (Romans 12:2). We must persevere in doing right as we submit to the Holy Spirit, even while resisting the enemy’s suggestions (James 4:7).

Scheme #3.  He tempts us to live in spiritual pride.

This is a biggie. This temptation comes after we’ve had some spiritual victories, or when we begin to see how the Lord is transforming us by His grace. We must be careful not to allow pride to compromise our walk with God (1 Corinthians 10:12).

The temptation is to think we accomplished our change—that we in our own power or by following some self-improvement plan are now “better” than others (hence the sad description the world gives us, calling us “holier than thou”). We become puffed up with pride, arrogant, and perhaps judgmental of others.

Our strategy to combat this scheme is to keep humble hearts. We were chosen by the Lord for His purposes and we are nothing and have nothing apart from Him. God opposes us in our pride, but He gives abundant grace when we humble ourselves (James 4:6, 10). We must learn to emulate Jesus’ humility (Philippians 2:7-8) and consider others better than ourselves (Romans 12:3Philippians 2:3).

Scheme #4. He attempts to distract us with others’ ungodliness.

It’s not always Satan directly who attacks us; sometimes he uses others. It’s a tricky, artful scheme. Satan tries to use the wicked influence of carnal friends or family members to tempt us to live ungodly lives. Friends can become stumbling blocks, and family members can draw our hearts away from our First Love. Families can be divided over the Gospel (Matthew 10:35; Luke 12:51). Our best friends may mock us when we stand for holiness—and it is usually in their own area of struggle (1 Corinthians 15:33).

Our strategy to combat this is to be sure we get our advice from godly people, stand against the unwise suggestions (temptations) coming from carnal believers, and be sure any counsel we seek out and follow aligns with the truth of scripture.

Scheme #5. He lies in wait for the right moment and then springs for an attack.

Have you figured out yet that Satan is a sneaky devil? He might ignore us for a while, but then he comes from secret places to attack when we’re off guard—when we least expect it! He left Jesus “for a season” (Luke 4:13), but then doubled up on his efforts as Jesus set his face toward the cross. Why should the enemy’s attacks on us be any different. This is a dangerous strategy because we’re not always prepared. Don’t be fooled that just because you have a victory, he’s not waiting in the wings to advance against you at a more convenient time (1 Corinthians 10:12)

Our strategy to combat this is to “watch and pray.” Jesus cautioned his disciples to stay awake and be fervent in prayer so they wouldn’t “fall” into temptation. Guard your heart; wake up; be on the alert! (Proverbs 4:23; Ephesians 5:15-17). Look for God’s “way of escape” (1 Corinthians 10:13). Use the full Armor of God to stand against him (Ephesians 6:11-12).

Scheme #6. He tries to make us forget or doubt God’s mercy.

One of his greatest lies to the Christ-follower is, “This is a sin too far.” I’ve dealt with this attack many times. My besetting sin can drive me to despair when I listen to and believe Satan’s steady chant: “You’ve blown it for the last time. There’s no more mercy.” I have to battle this scheme with strong truth!

The truth is, it’s not the overwhelming amount of struggles we may have with sin that should concern us, but only whether we have confessed (agreed with God about) them, repented of them and are positioning ourselves for victory—in Christ!

Are we really setting ourselves up to fight Satan’s strategies with strategies from the Word of God?

Our strategy to combat this is to rest in the truth of God’s loving mercy (Psalm 51:1-2; 103:8; Ephesians 2:4-5). Christ-followers are secure in the One who overcame Satan and died for every single sin. And our Lord still intercedes for us when we are floundering (John 17:15; Romans 8:34; Hebrews 7:25).

We don’t have to worry or despair; we only need to believe the truth: God’s mercy to us, in Christ, is complete.

Which of these schemes has Satan used in your life lately? Ask the Lord to help you become more aware of Satan’s tactics. Abide in Him and His Word so you will be properly prepared with biblical strategies!

 – Dawn

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